I know for some of you seasoned veterans the answer to my question is obvious . But for the rest of us we can't all get on MTV's Next or Room Raiders, so we to go to parties ,clubs and other social events to pair up with the opposite sex. But whats the right way to meet someone?? I used to thing a dance club was the best move, think about it theres hype atmosphere, music , scantly clad females , and always dancing . But heres the thing nobody thinks to realize, very few people actually go home with a person the meet at the club. For one because duhhhhhhh there a complete mystery to you other than the fact they can dance good and look really sexy or cute. So just because they got you horny on site doesn't mean you leave with them. So countless people hit up the club scene to find a bf or gf only to come back still very single each time, which is a complete dead end road. Go to a club to have fun dance and chill with your friends I'm sure you will meet a bunch sexy girls but there not going to leave wit u unless you strongly resemble Chris brown or whoever else that looks sooo attractive to them that they go dumb and actually leave with you or maybe if their drunk enough. Next we'll step into the party scene, yea a house party is a good place to meet your next potential bf or gf, you get to have fun , dance, drink and meet people but lets say you find a girl who is feelin, you and your feelin her back , you have a nice convo things are real good, but you step away for a minute to handle something or a friend pulls you away to talk to you and you come back only to find shes on another dudes lap or flirting real hard with someone else. Or lets say it got worse, she ends up coming out of a room wit a another dude and he's walking out straightening up his pants. It really is hard to say what the best situation is to meet someone, because so many variables come along with it. The process can really deter some good decent people with good intentions away from the "Game". Really the best way to meet someone is to open your mind to possibilities and stop forcing it, because forcing situations to align you with the best partner is risky and unnatural. I'm not saying don't chase after someone you really like because that is human nature. Just don't stalk that person,I strongly don't encourage that. If your chasing the girl of your dreams , don't follow her or stalk her instead go to places you normally go to and hope that you bump into her there, that way its a situation were your going about your business and she so happens to be going about her business in that particular place as well so if you decide to engage her in conversation its coincidental and unforced.

As always something to think about. - nkosis